Gary Snyder

Ok, I just got penalized for talking politics. I was not talking politics, I simply mentioned a political figure in the context of dating. If somebody does not want me here, I'll be happy to leave.

- Very well said. One thing is for sure.....I certainly do stir the pot! That's okay.....I do like to watch drama! As long as I'm not too involved in the drama. lol!

By the way: Woman says to man, "I love you". Translation: "Now you say it!"

Listen to Andrina. A man who is serious about you won't break dates. Words are cheap. Actions scream. You have a crush on him but he only sees you as a friend. It's a classic miss-match. Look for another guy who likes you as much or more and you'll have a lot less problems.

Please note that I said some men never say it. The things I talk about come from the very best relationships. The ones that have less than a handful of arguments per year, and still laugh and play together like little children cause they are crazy in love with each other. I think many people get their ideas from the fantasy world of Hollywood.

You probably will develop a crush on him again. It's kind of a waste of time because he lives in another country and most long distance things don't work. Unless you think you can just be friends with him. And date other guys. Sounds like you are the back-burner girl.

Some men almost never say it. What's a matter, you no lika Squint Eastwood?! If you read people you can tell that they love you through their actions. Saying the words may be overrated.

Yes, she's right - she has excess emotional baggage or other mental issues. Which one(s) are not important. Can you imagine what it would be like being married to this woman for ten years? It would suck the life right out of you. To be a good catch, they have to be sane - otherwise, a relationship is going to be a living hell........which is what you are experiencing now. Love is not enough.

One thing nobody mentions that might help you leave this woman is to find another woman - start dating other women.

I don't do much of anything or add people on Spacebook anymore either. It's not weird to me.

Wow, you two are like a train wreck. She's got baggage and your friend reminds her of that. Plus he's no good anyway. Find some new friends. Her friend - she is dating him, and she's cheating on you. She should not be seeing him alone - only in groups or with you / double dates.

- this could very well be true also. Google: Rebound relationship

Where am I supposed to read my dirt now?!

What happened to her new thread?

disregard, posted in the wrong thread