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No he hasnt messaged her since. It took place over a year ago and i have been struglling with it ever since. i love my boyfriend very much so i thought this would be enough to get past it. But i cant

Thanks. i actually thought when i wrote on here i would be told to "get over it". In a weird way its comforting to know what im feeling is normal after what he has done.

you're absolutely right.

thank you. this makes sense xc

no apart from that. there has been nothing. i just cant seem to stop worrying about it. i know this is my issue x

i seen the message on his phone. it happened a few months before i seen it. and he says he was drunk when he sent it.

Hi I am looking for some advice possibly from someone who is in or has been in a similar situation to me in the past. I have been with my partner for 3 years and our life is almost perfect apart from one niggling matter that comes up alot when we have a drink.. mostly on my part. a year ago i found out he had been messaging a girl from his past behind my back, telling her she looked amazing etc. i believe thats all it was as he has promised me this. and to most people i guess this is nothing to worry about. but i do. all the time. before i met my oh i was in a relationship for 10 years w