lily241253

Thanks for your answer. I didn't precise that we used condoms for the oral sex but it didn't work out (I won't explain why, I'm sure you can easily get it). I already got tested a few months ago. I also brought condoms evreytime we saw each other + I have an IUD so the pregnancy part is really not the problem.

Yes we did because we're not looking for anything serious rn, I just want to have fun with someone I really get along with (+ my sex drive is high). That being said, I totally agree with you, I can't believe it's still an option for some people and I do see it as a red flag.

I highlighted the parts I'm answering 🙂 1. I really don't mind if he sees other people, my only concern is my own health and it's the reason why I want to have protected sex. What he does on the side is not my business and I don't want it to be. I would just like to understand why he said that thing... 2. Yes I tried, his only answer was "I don't like condoms" and then he changed the subject I do agree with you when you say I should try to get a better idea of what this guy's all about but I'm starting to loose patience, I'm not used to that type of behavior so it confuses me...

Hey! English isn't my first language so please pardon the mistakes 😁 I've been talking to this guy for over a month now and we saw each other a couple of times. I stayed over at his appt 2 times, I really appreciate his friends/roommates and vice versa, he stayed at my place too, everything's good and normal here. We really get along, we have the same energy, humor, goofiness, etc. The thing is we never had sex with penetration. The first time was because I was on my periods. I also never have unprotected sex with people I don't know or trust and he knows it. When we are in the