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  1. I might be completely wrong here. But I feel like she’s using you to make herself feel attractive and wanted. When a relationship is breaking down, women can feel unattractive, not wanted, and alone. So sometimes, we fill that void with someone we know fancies us.. it would never be more than a ego boost for us.. someone to replace what we’re not getting at home.. I could be completely wrong. But it’s something to consider. good luck with it all x
  2. I mean if she’s said she doesn’t want a relationship then there isn’t much you can do. I know it’s hard when you feel the way you feel, and that person doesn’t feel the same. Esp when you work with them. Makes it 10 times harder because you have to see them everyday. I’ve been there.. but unfortunately you kind of just have to get on with it. And find a way to move on. Good luck
  3. Thankyou x I was planning on doing a beauty course before the pandemic hit. But obviously those plans have been delayed. I already work full time. 40 hours a week. I could get a night job I guess, but I’d never get any sleep. I’m not sure what else I can do other than that. ive tried to talk to him.. and it never ends well. He gets so manipulative and angry. He gaslights me all the time.
  4. My mum passed away. She was the only family I had. I need to figure something out. I just don’t know what
  5. He’s sleeping in a different room tonight, (his choice) and I’ve just walked in on him watching p*rn and pleasuring himself. The reason I walked in is because I thought I could hear it.. He tried to deny that that’s what he was doing, but I knew in my gut what I heard and what I walked into. However quickly he tried to hide it. I knew. After an hour of trying to get it out of him, he eventually admitted that’s what he was doing. Thing is, a week ago, 2 days after I spent the night in hospital, I woke up to him doing the same thing next to me in bed, while I was asleep. And a few mon
  6. You don’t want to write a long message like that because it sounds a little beggy. You’re best to keep it short and sweet. for example.. Hey (insert name) hope you’re well? I know this is a bit out of the blue, but I was wondering would you like to go out sometime for a drink or a meal?
  7. **RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN ADVICE NEEDED** ⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ Suicidal thoughts Corona virus Sexual assault It’s a long one so I apologise... but I really hope someone can help me here because I can’t cope.. Ladies I need some advice. I’m posting anonymously because there’s people in this group who I know and I don’t want them to know my business as it’s really personal. It’s so sad posting this on Valentine’s Day.. I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years. Our relationship started off very very fast. With him moving in w
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