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  1. ppp86

    Trust issues

    Hi I am looking for some advice possibly from someone who is in or has been in a similar situation to me in the past. I have been with my partner for 3 years and our life is almost perfect apart from one niggling matter that comes up alot when we have a drink.. mostly on my part. a year ago i found out he had been messaging a girl from his past behind my back, telling her she looked amazing etc. i believe thats all it was as he has promised me this. and to most people i guess this is nothing to worry about. but i do. all the time. before i met my oh i was in a relationship for 10 years w
  2. Hi all, How can I move forward from this? Has anyone gone through something similar - do depressed people come back to you if they get their head straight? My boyfriend left me recently. He has been through a lot of trauma in life, and I always knew that his self esteem was extremely low and that he had that type of personality where he didn’t feel like he deserved help or support from anyone. He tried his hardest to open up to me, and he did open up a lot, but I could also tell he was holding back a lot and putting on a brave face. He was always used to facing life alone. Lately life
  3. Hello all. 36 yo guy here. I've been seeing another bi guy for 3 years. The last few weeks he started seeing this girl and i quickly felt him phasing me out. He promised he would not phase me out. We've been going over this for a week. This morning i confessed my deep seated fear that every guy i know will eventually choose a girl over me, but that I was trusting him because he promised me i wasn't being replaced. He invited me over today, and his new girl showed up. He told me to leave so he could spend the night with her. He literally chose someone else right in front of me.
  4. Sorry guys it's me again. You can read my old posts to see how much of a mess I am. I don't even mean to get into these situations. It's my friend again. We didn't talk for months, because of something stupid. I didn't block him, but I erased his number and unfriended, just to let myself get over him. But he's back, again, and for a few weeks, I was doing really well staying indifferent. I didn't text him or call him, if he texted, I would answer, but you know, I wasn't like I usually am. I did so good for awhile. And even now, I still have my guard up, but it's getting really har
  5. About a year ago I moved out of my aunts house. We agreed to go half on the rent but because of COVID I haven’t been able to get back on my feet as promised. I get unemployment but that pays for my needs and nothing else. My aunt offered a place that she owns worth my half of the rent but I’m reluctant to go because she’s known to break boundaries. Even in the place I have now she pops up without calling even though I’ve told her more than twice not to. My fear is that I’ll get over there and she’ll be doing that AND more because now she’ll have a key. Also I have a mentally ill uncle th
  6. Hey everyone, I am currently job-seeking and have two offers. In terms of duties, leave, and possible career progression, I believe both offers to be equivalent. The differences are: Job A Significantly higher salary Long commute (45m)(the salary difference is mor than the additional cost) Larger organisation, hiring because of growth Employer is New Zealander (For context, I live in Japan and have limited Japanese ability. My current and previous employer were Japanese with no major issues, although cultural understandings around work are different) Employer has been a
  7. Hi Everyone, So my GF broke up with me 4 months ago now. She said we're both very young (20) and she was overwhelmed by how serious it was + not experiencing life independently yet (we'd been together since school). For the last 4 months we've been in limbo, seeing each other most weeks, sharing a bed, kissing etc. but none of it has worked and we're still not together. I said last week that i'd had enough and i wanted to do NoContact until she comes to a realisation/ decision about our relationship or I am comfortable seeing her solely as a friend (and not trying to win her back like i
  8. Why do we act pretty much as completely two different couples online and in real life? Me and her we get soo edgy, mad at each other, annoyed, scold at each other, cry, block each other on contacts, WhatsApp, fb, etc etc. We both have like a list of promises on each other and we keep breaking themm.. But once we see each other, once we meet, we're this fun couple having loadss of fun togetherr going out to eat, to drink, travel around, joke around, make fun of each other, laugh, make out in hotels, visit cinemas, amusement parks, museums, you name it. Rareeely do we get into any quarrels i
  9. So I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks, and she actually started talking to me and reaching out to me, I didn't know her that well. Well our first few dates went incredibly well and she brought up the idea of meeting my parents. So she did within the first couple weeks and it went incredibly well. So we've continued hanging and we kiss and hold hands and have recently started having sex. So I brought up the idea of becoming official because it seemed like that's what she wanted to, all the signs were there. But she said she doesn't want to see anyone else but she isn't ready to ta
  10. My story is about long distance relationship (LDR) start from i've been oversea (travel alone). And I met this guy on the street and he came to talk to me. Then, he took me to many places and he is really polite and romantic person (make me feel like I'm a princess) like he bought necklace with his name and gave to me to remember him when we apart, gave me rose, asked DJ to sang a song for me, we always hold hands. He asked to spent overnight with me, but I refused (we kissed and hugs). On the last day, I saw he was crying and he told me that our relationship won't end here. So, I gave him my
  11. My so and I dated around 1 year before going long distance. I moved to another state for my job for about 4 years. Until now, we have date a total of 2 years: 1 local and 1 ldr. We didnt really discussed about ldr before I go since we didin’t know what we wanted at that time. However, we both gave our relationship a chance. Ldr was extremely hard. While I felt okay doing that, he constantly felt lonely and sad. I once suggested he could go out for hook up if he wanted because he has high sex drive. We broke up about 3 months in our ldr. At that point, i have already booked the ticket back to s
  12. Hi everyone, Need some help with this. What are your views on this? Need some dissection. Burning slow because I let it go; the unselfish darkness devours me within; for a promise 'not to come back', my pain paints pictures...
  13. Long story short: We have been together for two years and a half. I met him when I moved to Bologna, Italy from Seattle. First year in Bologna, second year in Milan since the art school in Bologna never picked up my call (it's normal there). I chose Milan to stay closer to him instead of New York. He has never talked about moving to Milan when I was there, and 1.5 years later, my residential permit was expired, he didn't want to help me and go with the idea of marriage, so I left. Before my departure, he made a promise that he would find a way to move to the States to be with me since he reali
  14. Hi everyone. My ex (23 M) and I (21 F) have had serious issues in our relationship that never seemed to be making any progress and for that reason I dumped him and we have been broken up for over a month now. I have posted on this forum about our issues before, so little back story: http://0755ns.com/forum/showthread.php?t=561671 Tl;dr version: I hooked up with someone a few times during the “talking stage” with my ex. He found out a few months later when we became a couple and has verbally/emotionally abused me for more than half a year over the same issue. Fast forward to now,
  15. Me and my bf have been together for 5 years. He is a reay great guy and loves me a lot.He cheated on me once with my close friend where they exchanged texts for a few months... But he felt v.guilty came clean to me... After lots of fights and time... I forgave him... Its been 4 years now and he has always been extremely truthful and goes out of the way to make me happy... But two days ago he has a beer. He promised he will never consume alcohol and even if he did,he would tell me...He dint tell me and told mr only because he got sick. I feel so betrayed again... He said he was forced to take a
  16. hello, i'm [21] and she's [23] We've been dating for 3 years, we've always loved each other and been happy together. My gf however has depression and struggles with insecurity, low self-esteem. I try to be as positive as I can when I'm around her. ​ Recently she got a fulltime job and is training away for 2 months. The first 3 weeks she kept telling me she's lonely and isn't making any friends and during that time I tried my best to talk to her constantly through text, calls, etc... ​ On the 4th week suddenly she made new friends and started texting me significantly less (We tex
  17. Okay so this is a bit of a longer one and has only just happened in the past hour or so. So, me and my girlfriend have been together 3 months now. I kind of had a fling with her the day after she broke up with her boyfriend who she's been with for a year. Her boyfriend was very controlling and upset her quite often, and I guess in the end from all the arguing that's why it didn't turn out. Since they were dating (the boy was a mutual friend of mine at the time), he did not allow her to talk to any of her friends and didn't let her have a life outside of him, yet she put up with it for so l
  18. I have left some belongings of mine at my ex's. He promised to post my items to me,as I'm out of the country, but its probably been nearly two months and I haven't received anything yet! When I asked him if he sent my things first he said he was busy, then he said he had posted things but they were sent back to the sender for some reason. Last time he said he was going to use a pick up service instead of a post service.So I have no idea if he has done it at all. He has been contacting me every two weeks to kind of update me about the situation. But every time I receive a message from him it s
  19. For the 2nd time in the space of about 2-3 months I've caught my husband out having filmed me without my knowledge. The first time it was while we were having sex (maybe TMI but it was close up enough to not see my face) and now this time I was in the shower. After the 1st incident he promised and swore til he was blue in the face that he'd never do it again, so you can imagine how I'm feeling right now
  20. Hi all, I am hoping to get some advice here because I am really confused now. Sorry this is a bit long, but please allow me to tell a bit of the background. My boyfriend and I have went out for a couple of years. for the first 3 years we were in 2-different countries, very closed by though. We usually met once a month with one visiting another in turns. I have met his parents, relatives and friends. But as I don't speak their language, I don't hang out with them often (my BF speaks perfect English so we don't have any communication problems). I try to make this in timeline so its cleare
  21. My boyfriend and I have gone out for 8 months now and we are very serious. We visited his country where he introduced me to his parents and friends (big deal in our culture). Ofcourse he has met mine and they love him. He is a big brother to my little brother, a good listener to my mum and a friend to my dad. Maybe it's "women's intuition"... but from a few months ago things seemed iffy so I went searching through his phone. He usually doesn't have a lock (probably deletes everything) but I managed to find a flirty message with a girl. I confronted him. He was mad saying I'm "obsessive" and
  22. my boyfriend of over a year has recently given me a promise ring, but he got a set so that we'd both have a ring. they wouldn't let him get two different sizes though so the one for me to a bit too big and the one for him is a bit too small. so just now he is complaining about it hurting... his friend the other day (because my boyfriend wasn't wearing his) said that he made a promise to me and a promise to wear his ring as well, I of course, agreed with his friend. but now my boyfriend is saying that I /have/ to get him a ring in return for him to have to promise to wear it. (he also complains
  23. In may this year I asked him out. He said yes, but he had to cancel last minute. It happened once more and I told him if he didn't actually want to go all he needs to do is say so, he promised me he did and a week later we went out. It wasn't a traditional date, we didn't do much talking, and he was my first. We went out a couple more times, and we talked nearly every day, he was calling me sweetheart and honey and sweetie and he jokingly proposed 5 times (I didn't take that to mean he truly wanted to marry me, but it seemed something that you don't really joke around about with too many peopl
  24. Well I am male and my 2 best friends are female and we are all 15. I'm going to call myself R and my friends are L and F. It all started about a month ago when me and F both told L that we fancied her. L then decided to take some time away from us because she needed to think about lots of different things. And one day me and L talked and we both promised not to do anything that might hurt the three of us or lie to each other ever again. It got awkward after this but then we all were friends again and all was well. However this week I learnt that 4 days ago F and L got drunk and decided to date
  25. Wedding planning...I am experiencing a lot of things that were said from my friends, and then they never end up doing it. There were items and things they wanted to do for my wedding when the time was fun and "tight", now reality sets in, they just seem to drop off or play the silent treatment games. I'm rather disappointed in my choices of friends in the past. I don't know why I see it now during planning a large event. I have paid for all their dresses, offered to pay for their hair, and each bridesmaid's cost is roughly about 400$, but when I ask for little time here and there when I go
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